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They were betrayed before
Some people develop trust issues after being betrayed by a lover or friend.
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Due to their upbringing
Some parents raise their children to not trust any person easily, which leads to serious trust issues when they get older.
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They fear betrayal
Some people have a natural fear of being betrayed, which prevents them from trusting any person easily.
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They are introverts
Introverts usually do not open up to people easily. They take their time to know a person first before they can trust them. (See The body language of introverts)
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Hearing about bad experiences
Some people develop trust issues when they hear from the people around them about bad experiences that they went through related to trusting someone.
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Due to a troubled childhood
Experiencing a troubled childhood is one of the most important factors leading to trust issues.
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They fear intimacy and closeness
Some people have a fear of being intimate or close to someone, as they believe it might never last. This can lead to trust issues as well. (See Why some people fear intimacy?)
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Knowing someone’s past
Often in relationships when a woman knows her partner had cheated on someone before, for example, she will not easily trust this partner.
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They fear rejection
Some people develop trust issues as a result of their fear of rejection. Therefore, they choose to not put themselves in any situation that may lead to rejection.
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They are paranoid
Some people are paranoid, which means they believe people want to hurt them in some way regardless of their true intentions.
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They are antisocial
Antisocial people usually do not trust people easily as a result of their lack of social interactions.
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They have insecurities
People who have insecurities often find it hard to trust other people, especially if what they say or do contradicts their self-image.